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I have been meeting many people daily. Sometimes I find some people who are living in the world of excuses. I even feel comfortable in those people who got worst result but they realize that it is all because of their bad performance rather than any other excuse. This realization is an asset. An excuse is exactly the seal of failure. We need to find reasons rather than excuses.

Actually this EXCUSE stops us to understand why we get fails sometimes or even many times. I have been living a very successful last five years in term of my growth and development. I have achieved many landmarks. I have gained a lot of experience. But this doesn’t mean that I have no failures in my personal and professional life. Many times I get failed to achieve, many time I performed so worst while performing my routine tasks, many times I misunderstood people, myself and situation and all these cause a feeling of failure in me. I even never like to give an excuse of a bad day, time or bad luck. Even I don’t like to cover my failures in the large stream of my success. It is far important for me to understand why I get fail sometimes i.e. equally important to know as how I can be successful.

I have heard many speakers who talk about HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL but rarely are those who can circle HOW TO AVOID FAILURES. In my view there are many situations in personal and professional life when the important ask is not to know how to become successful but how to avoid failure. It needs a consistent research of our own personality and other variables that are attached to the scenarios. Sometimes we take too long to understand but majority of failures occurs only because of our own committed mistakes. We generally live in excuses and loose the opportunity to win it back the next time.

I always say that ego and proud are actually the symptoms of cancer in intellect. Yes, it is the reality in my view. Actually ego and proud creates a misperception in your personality that disturbed the mechanism of rectifying the errors. It actually promotes you as an individual who can not commit mistake and this simply means that you are not human. Now if you are not human so in this context you become God and you can not be God anyways so simply you become NOTHING. The first way to transform ourselves is to understand the factors of our probable failures. We have to understand clearly that we can be failed sometimes but we have to work those factors out that can cause our failure. This is the first step to take before thinking about the factors that can cultivate success for us.

We are humans; in general we don’t like to be failed. Even we have to love success naturally. But these failures can write extraordinary stories of success if we work these failures with proper rational to understand how we can achieve success by applying n-1. The most important thing to think, may one failure can hit your emotional wining instincts and you would become a victory within. But this needs a proper spark of will and determination.

Generally the moments when everything is going wrong with excessive pace, we have to slow ourselves a little down to understand things in their proper context. Actually it is man’s nature that he tries to move so faster when he sees things tumbling a hell here and there for him. But this is truly illogical. If anything is going wrong so we have to think more deeply than working it faster. Even anyways we have to work it. Time and impact equation has to be well balanced but getting in hurry to solve issue must not compromise on a rational solution. It generally happens when we think something as the last chance. There is nothing in this world that is the last chance. The world is the place of chances. It is actually we who shrink chances for ours. So try to be good in term of thinking the situation, people and yourself.

We always hear a word of trouble shooting and then smart solutions. Our skills to solve problems or finding smart solutions can not be attained until we make it a practice to take exposures in difficult things. Shortcuts are really harmful in this regard. If you find anything coming easily to you that is generally a difficult most to attain; so think hundred times before because it is coming without an experience of difficulties. And may be this experience is the million dollar act for future and the trick in the track.

Try to set your priorities. Try to make difficulties, problems and complexities, the greatest of your priorities then your life would be easy to work. Those who make difficulties their ease are the real champions. If you want to be good in solutions, you need to be rich in problems. Lesser riskier options always provide dull yields. Getting extraordinary always need doing extraordinary. We need to transform our personalities to the caliber that they love to be involved in difficult of situations so that we can come out of it with sheer skills and ability. We always have to focus making difficult things easy for us rather than selecting easy tasks.

The bottom line is simple it is all about excuses and our seeking of the easiest that weaken our chances to transform ourselves to be the real extraordinary. In fact we all are extra ordinary because we are human but sometimes it is our own created cover that makes us lesser in courage than a lion that is far deprive in abilities than us. So be human, be brave, avoid failures and get success. Simply transform to the real you in you…….


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Mr. Omer

Mr. Omer [1982 born] started  his professional career as a commercial / investment banker after achieving Gold Medal in Finance at master level from University of Karachi in 2006.

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